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Friday, October 23, 2009

Quod differtur, non aufertur.

Translation: That which is postponed is not dropped; the inevitable is yet to happen. (Sir Thomas More)



This SO reminds me of my mom + I. :D

How I wish I had a drum-playing spider!

I did have a goldfish that swam back up the toilet three times in a row...my mom had tried to flush him because I never cleaned out his bowl (he was blackish-gray and you could hardly see him in there), and an hour later my little sis was like, "Mom! There's a fish in the toilet!" Fido lived for two years after that.

Then one time I cleaned out his bowl and he died probably twenty minutes later. Not kidding.

Friday, September 18, 2009

Te capiam, cunicule sceleste!

Translation: I'll get you, you wascally wabbit!

Ahh, Friday. After a strenuous week of work, a weekend of chores ahead and the knowledge that Monday is scheduled to be busier than almost any other day in the last 2+ years I've worked there, I am taking this evening to relax with roasted milk tea and pajamas and dorky comics. Enjoy!


xkcd

Love #1

Love #2

Bond, James Bond

Gry

Cutest


A Softer World

You don't say...

Love

Cars


Dinosaur Comics

Sci Fi

Cryiest

Sociopath

Redrum


The Office

Dwight: Back injuries are not as common as knee injuries but more common than wrist injuries. Michael: Okay, I don't need a history lesson. Dwight: What do you think history is?

Boss: Michael, you can't fire him without cause. Michael: I have cause. It's beCAUSE I hate him.

My very most favorite ever

Art Lover

Friday, August 21, 2009

Siste, viator!

Translation: Wait, traveler!

I came across P.J.'s blog a while ago and being my creepy stalker self have enjoyed reading from afar. Not that I have anything to hide (aside from being way way way too entertained by this); I simply haven't made the time to re-introduce myself.

The purpose of which, by the way, this post also serves - hi!

I read this post about thankfulness and totally remember the night Jason bought his wife...whoopsie...so I scanned a couple photos I had in my old album.

I'm a celebrity in the Ivory Coast.
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"We called this rat 'Lunch'."
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Welcome home!
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Sunday, February 15, 2009

Sic erat in fatis

Translation: So it was fated.

This is my favorite poem.

Water by Robert Lowell

It was a Maine lobster town—
each morning boatloads of hands
pushed off for granite
quarries on the islands,

and left dozens of bleak
white frame houses stuck
like oyster shells
on a hill of rock,

and below us, the sea lapped
the raw little match-stick
mazes of a weir,
where the fish for bait were trapped.

Remember? We sat on a slab of rock.
From this distance in time
it seems the color
of iris, rotting and turning purpler,

but it was only
the usual gray rock
turning the usual green
when drenched by the sea.

The sea drenched the rock
at our feet all day,
and kept tearing away
flake after flake.

One night you dreamed
you were a mermaid clinging to a wharf-pile,
and trying to pull
off the barnacles with your hands.

We wished our two souls
might return like gulls
to the rock. In the end,
the water was too cold for us.

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Wednesday, February 11, 2009

In terrorem

Translation: As a warning; in order to terrify others

In yet other words: HAPPY 50th BIRTHDAY, MOM!!! I LOVE YOU!

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Always,

Christina

Your #1 Daughter

A teneris unguiculis

Translation: From tender little nails, from the earliest childhood.

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"Sometimes we forget that children have just arrived on the earth. They are a little like aliens, coming into beings as bundles of energy and pure potential, here on some exploratory mission and they are just trying to learn what it means to be human." - David Gordon, Martian Child

Luctor et emergo

Translation: I struggle but I'll survive.

So. I love my job. I have from the third day of working there. The first I was all nerves, the second I hated it with every atom of my existence, but the third - by the third day it had grown on me.

I have discovered an amazing wealth of knowledge, understanding, experience and empathy in this world of chemical dependency treatment. Understanding and identifying addict and codependent behaviors and the psychology behind treatment has given me insight into my most basic of relationships and helped me have manageability in my own life. I have met some of the strongest people - people who have lost years and family and achievement to addiction - yet stand to tell the tale, having found themselves again amidst the rubble. There are no egos here. There is pain but strength even more. There is humor through the heartache, something I have always treasured - for how else is there to deal with tragedy and the unjustness of the world than to savor the futility that is our humanity? We strive to be great but we are only human, after all.

This job - it's different every day. It keeps me on my toes in more ways than one. It has made me comfortable speaking with strangers and holding healthy boundaries. I enjoy being relied upon to get the job done. I am organized. I am efficient. I am fast and I have high expectations of the team I manage - and they are the best team I could ask for.

It comes with many frustrations, I'll grant you. There are those people who hand you something to fax when the machine is literally two feet from where they stand and you're obviously in the middle of an extensive phone call involving an 18-year-old heroin addict, his hysterical mother - who wants an appointment NOW although we're booked through next Tuesday and is just not getting that while, yes, we do have medical staff, no, we are not a hospital - and the ever-so-enjoyable [insert sarcasm here] task of telling them treatment will cost $26,000.00 paid out-of-pocket because they have no substance abuse benefits in their insurance policy. There are those people. There are also the ones who give you a project like bulk-labeling/mailing 380 Christmas cards and tell you the CEO wanted it done last week - this is when you find the most tactful way to say, "Well, perhaps you should have handed us the project a week ago, eh?" No one said you had to be gracious, just professional.

But the worse thing about my job right now is how drastically it is being affected by the economy.

In times past, a change in the economy was not so perceptible by looking at the census of a CD treatment facility. When someone lost or was about to lose their job, it was actually a better time than ever to get the help they needed. Having a spouse with insurance or taking a medical leave (for which you cannot be fired) worked into that equation. Nowadays, both people in a relationship are losing their jobs, their insurance, their houses, their stock and their money to even pay COBRA (optional temporary continued insurance coverage through your employer after change of employment status a.k.a. layoff). Distant families of addicts are going through this and can't tap into previously available funds to rally support for their loved one. People who still have their jobs are suffering as well - companies cannot afford the same insurance coverage they once did, so really great policies are becoming less available.

Which leads to my point.

When I began this job, I was one of three full-time employees in the admin department. Additionally we had two part-time employees working 3-4 days per week. That's at least 168 hours allotted to my department per week. Now - well...let's not start there. Let's begin with how they cut 40 hours last summer. Luckily our least favorite of the team was moving back east and finally gave notice (even after she knew someone else would lose their job if she didn't, and had the date already set and movers hired, I had to pull it out of her - goodness, I am glad she is gone) and we didn't replace her. It was hard but we survived. Then the person with the most experience moved on to a grown-up job at a domestic abuse counseling center, and we did replace her. The replacement couldn't keep her personal life out of her professional and we let her go. We interviewed to replace her, and the day after finding the right person I had to tell them we weren't hiring after all. Another 24-32 hour loss.

And now. Back to now. Now it's two full-time employees and one part-timer who has been working 22.5 hours per week because she's in the Master's program at Notre Dam de Muir. A day or so after learning our new-hire was a no-hire, I was told that our PTer had to go on "furlough" - basically a temporary layoff for lack of work/money to pay, in which they can remain on-call, collect unemployment and keep benefits but cannot use or accrue any PTO.

That takes us from 168 hours per week to 80. Less than half. For how long, I don't even know. First it was until the end of the quarter. The furlough letter I had to give stated if we didn't ask her to return in six months it would become a permanent layoff. And it's not just us, the lowest-paid on the totem pole. One person in every department is being furloughed until we get back on our feet. For the first time ever I'm seeing that we may not survive this depression, which is in itself horrifically depressing as we've been providing a quality service for a [surprisingly, I know] affordable price since being founded in the early eighties. We're not Betty Ford or Sierra Tuscon, but we're not the government-funded county-based program, either. While we don't take MediCal or SSI, we do take Anthem Blue Cross, Aetna, MHN, UBH and a myriad of other providers.

I have no choice to be look elsewhere. I am dragging my feet because I'm going on a cruise in early March. I know the competition will be fierce - thousands of layoffs in the bay area and Silicon Valley guarantee that. I have so much experience but not even an measly AA. I can work at In-&-Out down the street making $15/hr (more than our starting pay, how sad is that?) and pretend I'm 17 again, although I've never worked in food service a day of my life. I'd save money on gas but who am I kidding, I'd go postal with all that fake smiling and sugary sweetness. It could go unsaid that at bare minimum I'd be a luscious 387 pounds fluffier.

I think it might just be that time to go back to school. I just really REALLY wish I knew what I wanted to do...C.D.A.C.? Is that it? Psychiatrist? I feel far too cynical and, well, HUMAN, to truly be a leader of people with real problems. I get irritated by the heroin addict who falls asleep on the couch when he's supposed to finish his paperwork and I offer the alcoholic two breath mints and fabreeze the room when she leaves. I refuse the cokehead a refill on coffee and sometimes I want to tell the overbearing parents of the pothead that it really is just a phase and he'll hate you if you force this on him. I'm amazed that the opiate-dependent person finished med school when I dropped out halfway through my Spanish class.

But I do love them. And I want them to be okay. I feel like I have a little light to shine, a little toolbag to open and show them that will make life not necessarily easier but more bearable, and more fulfilling because they will be themselves healthier.

*sigh*

Do you see my affliction? Maybe I'm just a whiner. It's been said.

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Sunday, January 11, 2009

Nemo risum praebuit, qui ex se coepit.

Translation: Nobody is laughed at, who laughs at himself. (Seneca)

I Am - Christina Burris

I Want - a job I love as much as my current position but pays what it’s worth (or better, that wouldn‘t hurt).

I Have - many, many reptiles.

I Wish - I knew what I wanted to be when I grew up.

I Hate - that getting ahead can be such a struggle.

I Fear - BOBBLEHEADS. *shiver*

I Hear - people asking when I’m going to have a child, and I wonder how they don’t know me better by now. Seriously.

I Search - for that perfect balance between contentment and desire.

I Wonder - if I really have to grow up. Because I just don’t think so.

I Regret - nothing. I make conscious choices and accept all consequences.

I Love - my ridiculous family and my ridiculous friends! They all had their part in making me the person I am. Although some of them would deny this to the death.

I Always - complain! It’s my stress relief. Too bad for those around me, huh.

I Usually - procrastinate. And then get irritated at those around me who procrastinate. I’m weird like that.

I Am Not - a boy! No matter what my granddad told me when I was little.

I Dance - like someone who can’t.

I Sing - to the chagrin of anyone with ears.

I Never - do everything I’m supposed to. It can be good and bad.

I Rarely - answer my cell phone.

I Cry - when I am frustrated.

I Am Not Always - nice. Ask just about anyone. :/

I Lose - patience when I am tired. I get super fussy.

I'm Confused - by oh, so very much.

I Need - maybe a leg-lengthening procedure? There has to be something that explains my perpetual imbalance.

I Should - put down the Jack in the Box and join a gym already.

I Dream - of owning my own house soon. It always seem to be “one more year” away.

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Friday, January 9, 2009

Felix qui potuit rerum cognoscere causas.

Translation: Happy is he who has been able to learn the causes of things. (Vergil)

In even other words, some random facts for your consideration.

- In 1728, the philosopher Voltaire got rich by outsmarting the lottery. When the French government accidentally created a raffle where the prize money was significantly larger than the cost of all the tickets combined, Voltaire and his friend formed a syndicate, bought all the tickets, and won.

- Plastic bags take up less landfill space than paper bags. According to one study, two plastic bags take up 72 percent less landfill space than one paper bag.

- Academy Award-winning actor Kevin Spacey has an older brother, Randy, who makes a living as a Rod Stewart impersonator.

- Dimples may be cute, but they are an inherited genetic flaw. They are caused by a fibrous band of tissue that connects the skin to an underlying bone.

So. Now you know how to win the lottery. You know how to maximize space in a your dump (at least, if you chose to discard biodegradability standards). You know what your siblings will end up doing when you're rich and famous - unless one of them is already rich and famous; in which case you better get to working on your own impersonation skills. And you know that dimples are a freak of nature. Go, be happy. I'm glad I could be of service.

Sunday, January 4, 2009

O quam cito transit gloria mundi!

Translation: O how quickly passes the glory of the world!


Here's a minor homage to some famous (and infamous) people who passed in 2008.


Vampira - You can't love campy horror without loving Maila Nurmi.


Heath Ledger - Sure he was too young but how many thousands of young people are enmeshed in addiction? I was irritated by how much energy was focused on yet another actor overdosing (although here I am, contributing to the same).


Charlton Heston - I'd get weak for anyone who was in Planet of the Apes and head of the N.R.A.


John Archibald Wheeler - Mmmm...physics...


Yves Saint Laurent - Mmmm...cosmetics and haute couture...


George Carlin - Mmmm...satire and blasphemy...


Isaac Hayes - I will miss Chef.


Bernie Mac - I didn't realize the soft spot I held for him until he was no longer able to create the light and dry yet hilarious comedy that was his legacy.


Bill Melendez - A Charlie Brown Christmas and The Great Pumpkin. Need I say more?


Paul Newman - My landlady was sitting on the ground stroking our building's 15-year-old alley cat aptly named Mr. Magoo when I walked by. She asked how Conan was doing as it was the one-year anniversary of when he had put Spot down (his cat and friend of 14-15 years). After my response she looked listfully in the distance and said, "It's the cycle, I guess. The cycle of life." She went on about how the beautiful tree in the front yard was dying and had to be cut down; as I was about to walk away she asks, "And did you hear? Paul Newman passed away this morning. The cycle of life..." and shook her head with great melancholy. Uhhh...


Michael Crichton - Sorry, mom, no more disaster stories.


Betty Page - Ahh, my hero. As a woman I've looked to her as an example of strength and confidence. She was not afraid to be who she was and let that stand alone as the reason for her actions, even during an era where those actions were shunned.


Eartha Kitt - "And in the theatre I want to change my seat, just so I can step on everybody's feet...I want to be evil, I want to be bad."


Rest in Peace, all.